Wednesday, 11 July 2012

Will Do!

I have read so many blogs and articles lately where the focus has been on "Bucket Lists". There have been Bucket Lists for school holidays,(which I admit had a certain appeal after a few "you are  both going to boarding school!!" days these holidays); Bucket Lists for adventures; Bucket Lists for the next three months (90 things in 90 days); Bucket Lists for before you kick the proverbial bucket; and my favourite from my good friend Bernadette (http://b4forty.blogspot.com/). Bern had an "I'm almost forty, and I still haven't done all those wild things" moment, and created her own form of Bucket List. Her journey through this list has been hilarious, and so admirable. She has literally put her money where her mouth is, and has documented her escapades for inspiration.
To be honest, I have always found the idea of a Bucket List to be a bit morbid. What happens when you get to the end? Is the whole concept not temping fate? I am such a believer in fate, so the thought of waving the red flag in front of the "OK-I'm-done-with-my-list-now-grim-reaper" scared the hell out of me. And then the antithesis: how many of us are really going to walk the entire Great Wall of China? Or cliff jump off some remote Death-by-Stupidity cliff face? Or write a Pulitzer Award Winning Autobiography? Or even organise our CD collections by genre and alphabetically??? So by committing ourselves to a Bucket List, are we not setting ourselves up for inevitable failure? Or is that too cynical an outlook?

Lately, however, I have found myself in quite a dilemma. I am a HUGE procrastinator by nature. I tend to put off doing things until I absolutely have to. And then work frantically under pressure. I am also big on lists. Having lists keeps me focused and on track. And I have dreams. Big "one day when" dreams. Dreamer plus procrastinator does not bode well for making "one day's" a reality.  So do I give into the modern trend of creating my own Bucket List? Somehow, though, I just can't shake the ominous feeling of impending doom if I do.
It is now two weeks into the school holidays, with another two still to go. On my list, stubbornly unscratched off, remains my twins' birthday party to organise; a house to pack up for our impending move; promises to teach Kirst to knit properly & Dyl to snake-board (yes, I CAN!!); thoughts of pre- cooking suppers to freeze for the start of the new term;  my running career to resurrect; my new business to set up properly; my recipe collection to organise and my wish to do more writing.  And this is just my To Do List!
I have decided that the only way I am ever going to see the other side of my "chore list", and create space for my "One Day When" dreams, while side stepping the morbidity of a Bucket List, is to create my own version - my Will Do list. The caveat is that it will be bottomless in practise, and the whip-cracking-motivation is that it will be public. Its time for me to put my money where MY mouth is, and commit to some of my "one day's". Nothing as mundane as categorising my CD collection, and nothing as eye brow-raising as tattoo's.  Who knows? Maybe as I work my way through this process my goals will become more adventurous and brazen! And mixed with my everyday "To Do" items, the scratching off of completed tasks will spur me on! Someone very clever once said that goals not written down are merely wishes. So watch this space, I am putting pen to paper... I'm Just Saying...

11 comments:

  1. im with you!! bucket list is setting myself up for inevitable failure!! i too, am a serious procrastinator!!!!

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  2. I agree with paper and pen, the to-do-list, really can help, but with commitment. My post on procrastination comes up next week, this is a beautiful post. Have a great weekend! Following you from Thirsty Thursday. http://www.ugochi-jolomi.com

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  3. I am so bad at TO Do lists too!!:/ Stopping by from the hop and am now your newest follower:) Hope you can come check out Crazy Mama Drama !
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  4. Hi! Stopping by from MBC. Great blog!
    Have a nice day!

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  5. Stopping by from SITS. What a great post! Makes one stop to smell the roses! One of my favorite things to do!! Stacie xo

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  6. I love the idea of a "Will Do" list versus bucket list. I've felt the same way about bucket lists - seems so morbid. Recently, I created a fitness bucket list which has been so much fun because it's allowed me to dream a little bit which I haven't done in a while. Good luck with yours!!

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  7. Good for you. What a great way to join in with the bucket list idea but remain true to yourself and your own feelings. Best wishes with your adventure.

    Stopping by from SITS. Have great weekend.

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  8. I agree! I think I prefer the "will do" list as well, great post!

    ***Stopping by from SITS, have a wonderful rest of your weekend! :)

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  9. I like the positive spin you put on it. Thanks for joining us at NOBH. Have a wonderful day!

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  10. I agree with you, and previous comments: the "will do" is a cool, positive spin on it. It helps that I love lists ;)

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  11. I feel silly because I knew what a "bucket list" was but when I planned my yearly list it was not full of major things to do before I die but more like little things to do to live every day fuller. More like a will do or list I suppose! That is how I got the name for my blog- annuary chit means yearly list.

    Looking forward to your will do list even if it is just organizing your cd's :)

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